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Tips for Successful Breastfeeding in Public

September 10, 2024 Leave a Comment

Author: Mari Green

Breastfeeding in public was something I never thought much about until I had my baby. At first, the idea made me nervous. Would people stare? Would it be awkward? But I knew it was important for my baby, so I pushed through the discomfort. I remember the first time I nursed in public—my little one was hungry, and we were at a the Outlet stores trying to shop for my husbands new job. There really wasn’t anywhere for me to go, so I tucked away at a table near an alley and tried to be discreet. I was using a cover, but my baby had other plans. She fussed, pulled the cover down, and before I knew it, I was completely exposed. I quickly caught the attention of several passing fellow shoppers so as fast I as could, stood up, covered myself while trying to calm my baby and cut the feeding short so we could get to the car. I. Was. Mortified.

But to my surprise, no one said a word. A couple of other moms smiled sympathetically, and a kind older woman asked if I needed anything. That moment taught me that other mamas had most likely gone through their own similar experiences—and the ones who did are often the most supportive.

After that, I gained more confidence. Took precautions to make sure that situation did not happen again and learned to feed my baby comfortably without worrying so much about what others thought. Now, I see breastfeeding in public as a normal part of life. Sure, there are moments of awkwardness, but those pass quickly. What matters most is that my baby is happy and fed.

Breastfeeding in public can be a positive experience for both mother and baby, but it can also come with its own set of challenges and considerations. I asked All Together Mama if it would be okay to share some of the tips I used to help make breastfeeding in public a successful and comfortable experience:

Prepare in Advance

  • Plan Your Outings: Know where you’ll be going and identify any nearby breastfeeding-friendly locations or areas.
  • Pack Essentials: Carry a well-stocked diaper bag with breastfeeding necessities such as a cover (if you prefer to use one), breast pads, and a nursing-friendly outfit.

Wear Comfortable and Accessible Clothing

  • Choose Nursing-Friendly Outfits: Opt for clothes that are easy to open or lift, such as nursing tops or dresses with hidden openings. These easy access tank tops were a must-have for me!
  • Layer Strategically: Use layers that can be adjusted easily for privacy or comfort.

Practice and Get Comfortable

  • Practice at Home: Get comfortable with breastfeeding in different positions and using any covers or accessories you plan to use. Make it a test run just like if you were on an outing.
  • Familiarize Yourself with Techniques: Practice how to latch your baby quickly and efficiently.

Find a Comfortable Spot

  • Seek Out Quiet Areas: Look for a comfortable and quiet spot where you can sit and relax, such as a designated nursing room, a cozy corner, or a quiet bench.
  • Use Public Amenities: Many places offer family restrooms or nursing stations equipped with comfortable seating and privacy.

Use a Nursing Cover or Scarf If Desired

  • Choose a Cover: If you prefer extra privacy, use a nursing cover, scarf, or shawl.
  • Be Discreet: Practice using the cover in a way that feels natural and comfortable for you.

Stay Confident and Calm

  • Maintain Confidence: Trust in your ability to breastfeed and stay relaxed. Your confidence will help you feel more comfortable and less self-conscious.
  • Ignore Distractions: Focus on your baby and your breastfeeding routine rather than on onlookers or potential distractions.

Know Your Rights

  • Understand the Law: Familiarize yourself with breastfeeding laws and rights in your area. Many places have legal protections for breastfeeding in public.
  • Speak Up: If you encounter any issues or inappropriate comments, know that you have the right to breastfeed your baby wherever you are allowed.

Example Phrase I have had to use in the past: “I’ve read up on local breastfeeding laws so I am aware of my rights. If I encounter any issues, I’ll handle them confidently knowing I’m within my given rights.”

Engage Supportive Friends or Family

  • Seek Support: If you’re nervous about breastfeeding in public, consider bringing a supportive friend or family member along to provide encouragement.
  • Share Experiences: Talking with other breastfeeding mothers can provide tips and boost your confidence.

Practice Good Hygiene

  • Clean Hands: Always wash your hands before and after breastfeeding.
  • Use Clean Cloths: Ensure any cloths or covers you use are clean and properly sanitized.

Prepare for Different Scenarios

  • Be Ready for Interruptions: Understand that there may be interruptions or unexpected situations. Have a plan for how to handle them calmly.
  • Adapt as Needed: Be flexible and adjust your approach based on the situation, such as finding a new spot if your initial choice is not ideal.

Breastfeeding in public is a natural and beneficial practice for both mother and baby. By preparing in advance, wearing comfortable clothing, practicing in private, and staying confident, you can make public breastfeeding a positive experience. Knowing your rights and seeking support can also help you navigate any challenges with ease. Remember, breastfeeding is a personal journey, and finding what works best for you and your baby is key to a successful experience.

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